so i've been thinking a lot about why i stayed a jw for so long even though i had always had doubts about the doctrines.
i was born into the religion, left and came back as an adult for another decade.
some of the things that come to mind (besides the threat of shunning-and this isn't to minimize that very real threat) was:.
Absolutely LOVE my JW family and friends.
No doubt, my life would be mere existence without them.
Their crazy JW notions are quite manageable.
Hey, how about the crazy notion of many (specially the wealthy and scientists) about colonizing Mars.... MARS...!!!??? A planet completely inhospitable to mankind!!!
Oh yeah, I can definitely deal with the JW delusions.
DY
elders ,co ,do ,branch overseers ,gb ,missionaries has "sinful" lust got the better of them..
I got a few juicy stories from the Spanish side.
Elders committing adultery while at the same time participating in committees to disfellowship others for the same sins; elder committing adultery for YEARS with step-niece; elder committing adultery with much younger regular pioneer; elder sexually abusing children of undocumented sister, thinking to get away with it because of their illegal status; adolescent boys, sons of prominent elder, raping young girls and getting away with it; young elder raping young sister and getting a slap on the wrist; oh... so many more happening even as I type these words. It will never stop.
This is why, if our beliefs of Armageddon and God's kingdom on earth are real, ALL there will be only by the grace of God because we sinful humans will do the craziest stuff.
DY
so he tries to prove that we are living in the last days without any evidence, but instead a series of unsubstantiated assertions ("never has there been a time with so much lack love and affection").
and uses things that are not even part of the so-called "sign" (abortions, pollution).
then proceeds to ridicule the "ridiculers," stereotype them, and declare they are only fit for destruction!.
Oh my God...!!!
I heard the whole speech and what's worse.... agreed wholeheartedly with it. My feelings exactly about the state of morality nowadays.
The vast majority of Millennials, etc., say stuff like "what is morality?", "what is right/wrong?"
No apologies.
DY
in the past few years, kushner cos. and various investment partners have paid the watchtower more than $1 billion for property in brooklyn heights and dumbo.. and there's still more..... http://www.brooklyneagle.com/articles/2017/5/31/first-look-kushner-cos-makeover-jehovahs-witnesses-headquarters.
yet the r&f can't seem to find the presence of logical mind to question where all that money is spent, when members are struggling financially and continuously asked for more, while being chastised for higher education and holding jobs that might interfere with pioneering.
ugh .
The WTBTS is rich, no doubt. Reason why whenever they say at the assemblies that there's some sort of deficit, I do not contribute one more red cent than what's reasonable.
Same for KH contributions. I calculate # of publishers and monthly expenses, then contribute just enough to cover the bills if all pubs contributed the same amount.
They'll start practicing what the scriptures teach in terms of greed and being content with having basic needs covered.
DY
so i've been thinking a lot about why i stayed a jw for so long even though i had always had doubts about the doctrines.
i was born into the religion, left and came back as an adult for another decade.
some of the things that come to mind (besides the threat of shunning-and this isn't to minimize that very real threat) was:.
Family, friends, being used to the JW lifestyle. Also, accentuating the 'good' which far outweighs the 'conflictive'.
At this rather late stage in life, it's of most benefit for me to just ride it out than if I just jump ship.
It's quite complicated.
DY
just curious how we all think.. what prompted or influenced your choice of username for this forum?.
there are some really amazing names, and it would be great to hear the stories behind them.... mine was nothing fancy.
i just felt "stuck in a rut too" along with so many others.
I'm a doubtful JW, still a JW nonetheless.
Also, in coming to this forum, I'm quite doubtful of many here, but still continue to come and post often.
Either way, I'm... Doubtfully Yours.
DY
tragic occurrence:.
http://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/steve-scalise-shot-in-virginia-aide-also-hit/ar-bbcfakv?li=bbnb7kz.
i saw another report indicating that the gunman may have targetting gop members.
A group of haters, war mongers and violence instigators are now in charge of this nation. Why is anyone surprised by this?
I just exhaled with relief when found out it was a white old dude.
DY
i was standing at a red light and i noticed the little cart standing there.
they're barely noticeable and when i continued there was apparently someone on the other side of the street too.
the only problem, the location is a very busy intersection which has virtually no foot traffic and they're hard to see to begin with, as you can see from my vantage point i couldn't even read the cart and three people next to them on this side and two of them on the other side.. .
I despise that form of preaching!
Have never done it, will NEVER do it!
Ridiculous!
DY
on the alex jones radio program (yes we get it here via emails) just recently he highlighted that president trump has cleared the way fro action against paedophiles.
i was unable to cut and past the item.. two things here.
cut and paste please.
The fact that anyone gives even a mere second to that royal nut Alex Jones speaks volumes on how mentally and emotionally unwell a person is. 🤔
DY
superior court of california,.
minute order.
time: 10:00:00 am.
I so wish for a trial against the WTBTS such as the one against the Catholic Church, or at least a very public inquiry such as in Australia.
I can only imagine how many occult predators/molesters/pedofiles are hidden in plain sight among us. Even higher ups in the chain of command it's rumored.
It would be devastating!!!
DY
